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New pictures up on myspace! Mainly of Aiden, and I'm home with him right now so I don't really have the time to put them all up on here! Go check them out.

I'll take it

According to a new study BBW have more *cough cough* than skinnier women.

Okay so I personally think I’m in the middle of this one. I’m not miss size 2, but I also don’t shop in the plus size so I’m gonna say I’m in the middle, but I’m also in a relationship so I’m not sure if I should have an opinion on this. However, I think bigger girls like the attention and may indeed put it out there a little easier than little mini skinny. I can honestly say this because I like sex, I like it a lot and I do it a lot so I’m one to give it up;to my future husband of course. So I don’t know this one is a little out there. It also surprised me that every BBW that called in said it was true because “our confidence is higher, and men like that” where the smaller ladies said “with bigger women you can already see it all, and don’t hide imperfections under clothes like we do.” So there ya go, who’s getting more? All I know is I’m getting it whenever I want it.

Reaaaaly

America’s Most wanted comes to South Philadelphia

Need I say more.
http://www.amw.com/advanced_search/search_results.cfm?StartRow=1&pageNum=1&ad_search=other&keywords=Philadelphia&name=&age=Choose&race=0&region=0&location=Philadelphia&crimetype=0&victim_name=&weapontype=0&vehicletype=0&section=&search.x=50&search.y=10

If you were to call a rose by any other name

Once in awhile I listen to the radio in the morning. Okay actually I listen to the radio about 9-10 hours a day and from 5:30am to 10 my station is locked on 96.5. I love the station and am a VIP P1! If you have no idea what that means go figure it out: www.wired965.com As with any radio station they bring up topics that people are strong opinions about and they open the phone lines for people to vent, talk and discuss. Well, I’m not suppose to call out to places like the radio station and talk to Chio all morning so I’ve decided that when there’s something on that just annoys the shit out of me I’m going to write about. Keep in mind it’s just my opinion and we’re all entitled to one.
Today’s subject:
http://genepartner.com/
If you need a gene partner test to tell if you’re suppose to be with your partner, you are extremely insecure about yourself. I’m not saying that the whole idea is crazy because yes biologically people are attracted to certain people because of there DNA and their chemical makeup. However, as the website says: This is an ONLINE DATING SERVICE. It is supposed to be for people that have dated and are the end of their rope and out of options and are trying to find someone. It’s not meant for a couple that’s been together for 3 years and thinking about marriage. Females take things like this to heart and if your results come back not as you expect or hope it to you’re going to be a mess and cause more drama in your relationship than you need to. You have enough strain on yourself and your partner being in a long distance relationship why would you do this to yourself? I just don’t understand the point of this. It’s like something we did in high school with a compatibility test to see which one of friends would make a best boyfriend or girlfriend. It’s something to do your fun and if that’s all your trying to get out of it go for it, but if you’re going to take it to heart, I’m with him don’t send in your q-tip.

Something’s you should know before coming to Philadelphia before, during or after St Patty’s day:

People are extremely drunk 99% of the time and some people get really angry when they drink green beer. Maybe it’s the color, maybe it’s the company, but either way you should know that strange things have happened. Flattened tires, eggs on widows or even smashed windows, shaving cream on nice cars. Oh and lets not forget the ones that were set on fire and flipped over. Not to mention people being punched in the face for being somewhere they shouldn’t, getting hit by cars, thrown down steps out of bars and into traffic. Then there’s the other half of Philadelphians (or people visiting that shouldn’t be) that just turn into whores and can’t keep their legs closed.
If you’re planning on making a trip to Philly for the upcoming holiday you might want to see if it’s really in your best interest to drive that far just to get drunk, spread your legs and get punched in the face…
For those that are far from here and won’t be able to make it to the City of Brotherly Love … Go to Hell. You shouldn’t be here anyway unless you're invited by those that you think might want to punch you in the face and throw you down the stairs.
Some other advice for well lets just say those addicted to texting... Make sure you know who you're texting when you're having a very "should remain confidental information"
And those of you that just try to make people feel bad for you SHUT THE FUCK UP. I WILL feel bad for you when things out of yourcontrol happen, or if you're trying to better your situation. However, I will NOT feel sorry for you if you sit on your lazy ass and let life happen to you and do nothing about it.... I'm not sayin... I'm just sayin

Well now I feel much better, lets talk about something else much more exciting and make some updates:
Love Life:
I couldn't be happier! Everythings going great and I'm getting married in just over 6 months and I'm so excited. Once all plans are set I will share the website for those that need it! I'm still debating on some things and trying to figure it out so once I got it I'll let you know!
Aiden:
He is so wonderful. He's walking a lot more. Not at a steady pace, but from room to room which is awesome. He just had his first birthday last weekend. That's right Valentines Day for those that don't know, and it was a great birthday! Pictures of course will come later, but the big story is how we lost the little guy.... In our new house we have the living room that leads to a small hallway then into the dining room and the kitchen is off to the right. Then the stairs are on the left of the dining room that goes up to the sitting room and then the bedrooms. So we're sitting there watching tv playing and Aiden gets up and goes into the dining room. Let me point out that this is something normal for us and is not a surprise at all. So we're sitting there and then it gets really quiet. For those that are parents, you know this isn't a good thing. When they're loud and carrying on you know they're fine, but silence is not good. So I start looking behind chairs under the table in the kitchen maybe even the bathroom (if we don't shut the door he tends to shut himself in there) but no. We searched and searched and finally David goes there's no way..... He goes up stairs and there sits Aiden flipping through a book. That's right Aiden learned how to climb the stair all on his own. It was a little scary, but it's a huge accomplishment for him and now we have gate up!! If I figure out how to post it I have a video that I'll post!
Career:
I'm working at my desk doing research, and I love it. It is however just a job and not a life long dream. So after the wedding Air Force here I come!!! I've looked up every possible thing I can think of and the pros definately out weigh the cons!!!
Best Friend:
Suppose to be coming back to the great world of PA pretty soon and I'm so excited to go to Perkins I can't even contain myself!!!
I think that's really all of my news for now! Pictures will come when I get some just mommy time!!!
xoxoxo

Home sweet home

Well after about a month of searching we've found our new place. We narrowed it down to three. A 2 bedroom house, a 3bedroom apartment, and a 2 bedroom apartment. Surprisingly we chose the 2 bedroom. It's really the biggest out of the choices. It's an upstairs aparment in a 4 unit old farmhouse. Theres some work we've already decided we're going to do, but it really looks like a place we can call home, and most importantly Aiden will have his own room and a huge yard to play in. Its a small town similar to "Downtown DuBois" for those of you that know what that means it'll be like home, with a good mall near by. After we make the deposit, sometime this week, we can move in and I will start taking pictures so I can show before and afters of my what my handyman can do. I'll be helping of course, but the actual technical work will be him.

Other news, wedding plans are starting to blossom. Nothing permanant yet, but many most likely plans have been set. We'll know more on Thursday night, and then I will post with information!

Oh and GO STEELERS!!

Thanks, but no thanks

I feel that only noteworthy events qualify for blogging. Therefore as you can tell I have something worth writing down! Recently I’ve been put into a situation I hate. Nine years four months and twenty four days ago I was convinced not to count on anyone, not to ask for anyone’s’ help and to not trust most people. Somehow between then and now I forgot this small bit of knowledge I once had and now I feel stupid. Sure it may not be nearly as dramatic as I’m making it seem, but I had to ask for help. Something I absolutely hate doing, but I swallowed my ego and did it. I actually asked several people to help me, and the funny part is: No one would. I do understand that some people couldn’t and to them I am thankful for just being honest but those that could wouldn’t do it. And I know I shouldn’t complain about it, but it bothers me so much because I honestly never ask for anything. Ever. Ask anyone they’ll tell you. I do not ask for favors, presents or help. It’s just not in my genes. So to those that have listened to me complain for the past… well probably three weeks thank you, and to those that could not or would not help: I did it without you. I didn’t have to embarrass myself and ask after all. I found a way to get around all of it and did it. So thank you for reminding me of lessons learned long ago: When life gives you lemons; make lemonade. By yourself and there is no such thing as too much. The sun always comes out and calls for a nice tall glass.